The A§H Clan

ok so i got into a argument with my hubby earlier over celebrating my dads bday on the 19th.

I got my dad a cake i pick it up friday, I have the bakery put R.I.P in one corner and I love you in the other and Happy Birthday Dad in the middle.

My husband says im weird and that noone celebrates a dead persons Bday?!??

Is it weird? I mean he never let me go visit my family or anything else, i wasnt allowed to go to my brothers funeral last year cause he thought i was going to leave him, so this is the last thing i can atleast do for my dad.

It's kinda uncommon but if it makes you feel better then that's what counts Usually I go to the cemetery at this time of year
-Mandalor

I don't think it's weird. There's no rules to dictate how you can or can't celebrate a loved one's birthday. No matter where they are or aren't, do what you feel is best.

Whatever works to make you happier is my motto.

I've actually heard of this before. It's fairly common around here.

I'd say that if getting a cake and eating it helps you feel happier, go for it! I'm sure your Dad would have wanted you to be happy.